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Always Be the Best Version of Yourself

Oftentimes, when we think of customer service, the notion of how we manage and interact with clients comes to mind.

How polite are we to our clients? Do we handle our clients’ concerns and complaints with understanding and compassion while still maintaining their dignity? 

By definition, customer service means: “the action of helping or doing work for someone.” Interestingly, the definition does not specifically say that the actions should be good or bad, but we can assume that offering “good service” is in the best interest of our clients. Also, the definition of customer service does not mention direct interaction with the client either.

We typically assume that customer service is exclusively about the interaction that we have with our clients, but how about the actual services we provide? Do we support our clients in the most positive and knowledgeable way possible, or do we do them a disservice? 


Clients often believe they know what they want and, as professionals, we think that we are doing them a favor by following their instructions. 

What if the client asks for something that you know may not be in the best interest of the pet? Almost every groomer I know has been asked to shave a lab or Pug; however, what if we shave them down and it does not grow back? Do you believe you have provided your client with the best customer service possible? The best customer service we can offer is to be professional and refrain from any action that may adversely affect the pets we care for. 

I strongly believe that in order to stand above the crowd and become respected professionals in the grooming world, we need to work as an industry to raise our standard. If your motives are based merely on making the next dollar—regardless of whether your actions are right or wrong—you become an order-taker, not a grooming professional. 

As groomers, no one requires that you take an oath or adhere to any moral or ethical standards, so it is left up to the individuals to make those decisions. I passionately believe that most of the groomers I have met have their ethics in the right place. Our top priority should always be to provide the best care for the animal that we are entrusted with. 

I also believe that life often pulls us off center and we need to refocus on what our priority should be. For example, do you question your next move when clients ask for those unethical grooms? We should ask ourselves, “Am I doing this for the pet’s benefit and wellbeing or just for the money?”

Making money is not a negative notion in itself, but if it is your motivating notion, then you’re putting the cart before the horse, as the old saying goes. Good customer service starts with providing the best care of the pets that is humanly possible.

 As with the veterinary creed, it also involves a lifelong obligation for the continued improvement of professional knowledge and competence. Most industries are constantly changing and improving as new techniques, technology and products become available. The vital question is, what are you doing to keep current? Continued education? Attending tradeshows? Trying new products and equipment? Enhancing your grooming skills? Using the latest technology?

Here are a few things to consider when asking yourself if you are providing outstanding customer service:

Do you shave down dogs or cats that have genetically predetermined hair coats? If you compromise the coat, you may be setting yourself up for “shave-down alopecia.”

Do you use dish soap, Murphy’s oil soap, vinegar, bleach, ketchup (yes, it was on Facebook), corn starch or other products not designed for use in pets? Have you considered what your liability is if a pet has a reaction, knowing there are so many products suitable for pets designed to do the same thing?

Do you pick your products because they are cheap? How would you feel if your hairdresser did that with you?

Are you correctly conditioning after every bath? If you are stripping the oils with shampoo and not replacing them, many of these dogs will end up at the veterinarian for itchy skin. They will probably be diagnosed as “allergies” and put on several unnecessary medications (often long-term).

Is your goal for the day to see how many dogs you can groom or the quality of each one you do?

Can you explain the anatomy and physiology of the hair and skin and why skin issues occur to a client in detail?

Truly the best “service” we can provide is through our knowledge and expertise while still maintaining an ethical pathway in doing so. No one else can force these things on you; they are choices you make as a professional. Anyone can follow orders, but the true professional guides the process in a manner that is most beneficial for the pet. 

Are clients going to resist? Absolutely! Mainly because they do not know any better. But, if you can train and educate your clients on the “why” and “how,” most of the unwillingness goes away. Of course, you will still have a few that will fight with you, but at that point you should be asking yourself if that is really a client that you want to deal with long-term. 

Ultimately, it is your decision whether you want to be the professional groomer or the order-taker. The problems you set yourself up for are under your control. So, do yourself a “service” and choose to remove as many of these pitfalls as possible. 

At the end of the day, customer service is taking care of business, doing what is best for the pet, avoiding issues and of course being respectful to your clients. ✂️


Dr. Cliff Faver

Dr. Cliff Faver graduated with a BS in Biology/BA in Chemistry before getting a Veterinary degree in 1987. He is the past owner of Animal Health Services in Cave Creek, Arizona and now the US distributor for Iv San Bernard products, teaches the ISB Pet Aesthetician Certification program, and speaks internationally on hair and skin. His passion is to merge groomers and veterinarians to aid in helping and healing pets. He is also a member of AVMA, AAHA, AZVMA, Board member with Burbank Kennel Club, and has served on Novartis Lead Committee, Hill’s International Global Veterinary Board, and a Veterinary Management Group.

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